A homeless man is standing on a street corner with a sign reading:
Too fat and too ugly
to prostitute 🙂
He is neither fat nor ugly. I am also certain he is straight. A homeless gay man would not advertise his double vulnerability to the omnipresent dangerous bigots.
So the “in” joke—“in” with other, straight but not homeless men—is that he is more downtrodden than a homeless woman, whom men screw before giving cash. And since there are so many, many men who are willing to screw a homeless woman, she gets more cash at the end of the day than he, the homeless straight guy.
So pity me, he says, with a smiley face on his cardboard sign. I may be homeless, but I am a man just like you—always at least a rung higher on the ladder of power than women of my own class, always able to joke about the oppression and abuse of women—and that’s where you, the other classes of men in the cars, and me, the homeless man, bond.